I’ve been asked more than once, when writing a song, should you write the lyrics first or the music. That’s kinda like the old question, which came first, the chicken or the egg. The answer is that great songs have been written both ways. Larry Henley wrote the lyrics to “Wind Beneath My Wings” first and then gave them to Jeff Silbar who penned that great unforgettable melody. Then there is Paul Simon who almost always comes up with a melody first by going outside on his balcony and singing out loud until he finds the melody he is looking for. There is no set rule on this issue. The idea is to find a system of writing that works for you.
I personally have done it both ways. Most of my songs started with an idea or “hook”, followed by the lyrics to a chorus, then verses. I usually have a melody forming in my mind as I write the lyrics. I sometimes use that melody for the finished song but usually either write a new melody or give the lyrics to another writer to write the melody. Co-writing is fun, but we will get back to that later. I have, at times written a melody first. This method is more difficult for me personally but has produced some of my best and strongest songs. I find it more difficult to put lyrics to an existing melody because you must work with the meter and phrasing already in place. It’s like trying to write new lyrics to the Star Spangled Banner. It’s not an easy thing to do. I was once fortunate enough to write a song with the great Don Phrimmer. Google him and you will find a list of some of the biggest hit songs in Country music history that he wrote or co-wrote. I had an idea, a title, “The Memory’s the Last Thing To Go”. I was playing in a band with a friend who was writing with Don on a regular basis. He took the idea to Don who wrote the lyrics in just a few hours. My friend and I then wrote the music. I week later George Jones put it on hold.
I think most songs in Nashville are co-written. Songwriting is a very “social” past time there. Instead of saying “Let’s Do Lunch”, everyone says “Let’s get together and write” or simply, “Let’s write”. It’s a way of life. And that’s the way it should be for anyone who is serious about songwriting. The networking activities that business people engage in, in every city in America, are practiced everyday in Nashville by successful song-writers and musicians. Now back to lyrics. Another question that comes up, is how do I start writing a song.
For me, it almost always starts with an idea, usually the title or hook. First let’s talk about what a hook is. A hook is, to put it simply, a small part of the overall song that “hooks” the listener leaving them unable to forget it. It is usually the title. It’s the part of the song you can’t get out of your mind like The Eagle’s “Heartache Tonight” or The Beatle’s “Can’t Buy Me Love” or “Eight Days A Week”. Sometimes the hook is a guitar riff, like the intro to the Rolling Stones’ “Satisfaction” or who could forget the guitar riff that kicks off the Billy Ray Cyrus smash hit of a few years ago, Achy Breaky Heart. Other times it is a portion of the melody, like the Byrd’s Mr. Tambourine Man, or the first line of the Beatle’s Yesterday. These hooks just stick with you forever. That’s what a great song should do, stay with you.
Now when a great song stays with you and also hits a real emotional button like “heartbreak” songs do for people who have been jilted, that’s when songs become special. Think of songs like Crystal Gayle’s “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue” or patriotic songs like Lee Greenwood’s “God Bless the U.S.A. My aim is to show you how to write great songs like these.
Have you ever read one of those ads where some songwriting guru claims he can teach anyone how to write a song? Let me share with you what I really believe is the reality of that scenario. While it may be true that anyone with half a brain can learn the mechanics of songwriting, only those with a certain gift can write those great songs we all know and love.
The elements that produce great songwriters are much like the talents that create great athletes or great politicians. Many of each have the basic talents, but it's the development of those talents that make the difference between the great ones and those sitting on the sidelines dreaming for the rest of their lives. You must go out and do it. When it comes to songwriting, you must somehow get into the thick of things, either by moving to a major music capital or somehow plugging into a professional system somewhere. A very, very few are successful without moving to where the action is. And more times than not, those few had a very good “in” with someone who was already successful.